In any relationships, an unhappy moments will be there, while the couple is together. Causes of unhappy relationships are different mindsets' thinking, religion problems, mood swing of partner, attitudes problems and many more. Most of us are used to living alone without a partner until one day, someone you love appear in your life. Once two persons get together, both of them may have different kinds of lifestyles which cause friction and unhappy relationships are created. Unhappy relationships are an inevitable part of romance; it is a matter of choice that we made to make ourselves happy. If you are facing an unhappy relationship right now, then there are Three different Possibilities you can choose to take but I will suggest you think carefully before you act. Possibility are One: Do nothing and maintain things as they are sometimes, once a commitment is made, it can be very hard to leave an unhappy situation. You may feel that you have to stay in order to support your loved ones especially if you have children that you are unable to leave for any reasons. You may continue on your path of misery. Those around you will become miserable especially when your children see you quarrelling and you will continue along this path until you are in the worst of situations. People have been asking why this above situation occurs; it is the simplest thing to do. However, it can be easy not do anything about the situation and what is presented is always misery.And this decision is noble, I will not choose this possibility if I were you. Possibility are Two: Stay to Fix Your Unhappy Relationship, before you decide to stay this possibilities requires a full commitment. If anything less than a full commitment will worse than trying to stick things out. This step will definitely require both partners to work together in order to repair the unhappy moments. This will be the most challenging of all possibilities but it can lead to the best situation if done correctly. Any changes made here will definitely be lasting and permanent. If your partner is not committed towards the repair of the unhappy relationship, then all attempts to repair things will fail. Possibility are Three: Leave your misery This can be the hardest decision to make and most unbearable choice to choose from. However, cut the misery short by ending the relationship before things become irreparable. Unhappiness, depression, quarrels, and many other factors eventually come out of an unhappy relationship. This will not only bring you and your loved ones great suffering, but it will also negatively affect those around you as well. If you come back and think about it again, you might be relieved for awhile when you leave. However, the pain that you chose to ignore and escape may come back to you again. You may end up missing your partner and want to get back together with your ex but remember to cool down and think carefully before you act. I totally understand how you are feeling right now; you may be in a dilemma of what to do in order to actually make things feel better for you and your partner. All it takes is an effort to do what is right for you and your loved ones. | | | | |